AIM Framework glossary
Mutual-Regard Equilibrium
Canonical definition
Because downward attribution is the dominant extraction channel (Extraction-Direction Asymmetry), and because PM is the differential between mutual deferences rather than an absolute transferred quantity, the population-scale net-benefit equilibrium is the symmetrisation of regard: the condition in which each Individual's regard for others and others' regard for them are mutually matched, so that the regard differential (and hence PM) nets to zero. This is reachable by two complementary routes: downward by the universal withholding of downward attribution (lowering the high ends of the gradient), and upward by universal mutual deference (raising the low ends). Both flatten the gradient, which is what PM tracks; neither requires the level of regard to be low. Universal deference is therefore not incoherent: when deference is mutual its differential vanishes, yielding PM = 0 at a uniformly high level of regard rather than at silence. The equilibrium condition is the symmetry of regard, not its absence; differentiated regard sustains a live differential (PM > 0), whereas symmetric regard at any level nets to zero. The floor remains a floor and not a reachable terminal state (Mimetic Premium Floor Corollary): the M-channel cannot be removed, so the differential is driven toward zero asymptotically, never permanently stilled.
Explanation
Status-premium isn't a thing you pour into someone; it's the gap between how much they look up to you and how much you look up to them. So you can close that gap two ways. You can stop running people down, which lowers the high points. Or everyone can hold everyone else in high regard, and because it's mutual, the gap still nets to zero. Universal respect isn't impossible; when it's returned in equal measure, nobody is above anyone. What matters is that regard is mutual (returned in equal measure) not that it's low. A world where everyone genuinely esteems everyone else equally sits at the same floor as a world where everyone declines to denigrate (and the warm version is the better one to aim at. The old adage still holds: if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all) meaning genuine regard, not flattery, and meaning that the thing to withhold is the put-down. Its deeper companion is: hold others as high as they hold you.
Epistemic status
Framework-Specific Construct.