AIM Framework glossary
Relational Specificity Principle
Canonical definition
Of the components of the valuation an Individual directs at an Individual-as-Object, only the I-engagement whose Object is that Individual is specific to that Individual. The A-component is substitutable, because any Individual who meets the same deficit satisfies it. The Mimetic Premium component is substitutable, because its Referent is comparative and any candidate carrying more Salience displaces it. The I-contribution the Individual makes to engagement with other Objects is substitutable, because it is bounded by that contribution and any Individual contributing equally supplies it. The I-engagement whose Object is the Individual is not substitutable, because it consists of the accumulated history of Ground-Resolution on that one Individual and the unresolved residue that Individual continues to present, neither of which transfers to another. Only that engagement can therefore carry a relationship indefinitely.
Explanation
Almost anyone suitable can meet your bodily needs, the status someone brings you is always open to being outdone by someone more impressive, and a good tennis partner can be replaced by another good tennis partner. What you have with a particular person, everything you have learned of each other and everything still left to discover, belongs to that person and cannot be moved to anyone else. That is why lasting relationships are with someone rather than with a type. The principle holds for friendship and kinship as well as for romantic partnership.
Epistemic status
Framework-Specific Named Result. Derived from Differential Satiation (Axiom 6), the Reciprocal Valuation Property, and the non-satiation of the I-process. Not an additional axiom.
Derivation
Chapter 9, Section 9.15.4; applied to friendship at Section 9.17.2 and to kinship at Section 9.18.2.
Related terms
- Individual-as-Object
- Reciprocal Valuation Property
- Differential Satiation Dynamics (Axiom 6)
- Curiosity
- Boredom
- Mimetic Premium (PM)
- PM Fungibility Principle
- Audience-Removal Test
- Collaborator Subtype
- Push-Pull Obligation Principle